Synastry Question

My husband and I have been together for three years. He was born on December 7, 1979, I was born on April 26, 1979. We got married on November 25, 2005. We love each other, but we argue all the time. I have read in many publications that people of our zodiac signs cannot be together for a long time. And I really want to live with him all my life. Are we destined to be together? Nadezhda, Taurus

Taurus and Sagittarius are really not the most compatible signs. Sagittarius needs a lot of personal freedom and complete trust from their partner. An active lifestyle and a love of travel are natural for them. When nothing new happens in life for a long time, Sagittarius begins to sour. Taurus, on the contrary, tries to maintain the stereotype of life once chosen, any changes and innovations are given to him with great difficulty, therefore, the spiritual impulses of Sagittarius are often incomprehensible to him.

A typical Taurus is a big owner, he needs his partner to always be with him, and their home to resemble a full bowl. Sagittarius is not attracted to a golden cage. Taurus women usually strive to save their marriage, no matter what. If their union breaks up, it is not on their initiative. In a specific Taurus-Sagittarius couple, everything depends on the psychological flexibility and ability to give in of the Taurus partner.

Sagittarius is more compliant by nature, so he is the one who is constantly forced to adapt to Taurus, although Taurus may not have this impression. But if the game is always one-sided, i.e. Sagittarius constantly does what Taurus wants, there will definitely come a moment when Sagittarius will not stand it and explode. Especially since your spouse is also quietly stubborn and rather proud.

You, Nadezhda, have a very strong, strong-willed character. Your Mars (the planet of activity) is in the sign of Aries in opposition to Pluto, so you are very decisive and assertive, and have the traits of a leader. There is an unconscious attitude in you that things should always be your way, so in any situation you tend to insist on your point of view, and you do it with great force. Your task is to become softer, more feminine, not to immediately demonstrate any emotions that come over you, but to learn to restrain them, to experience them inside. Such a stereotype of behavior will make your relationship with your husband more harmonious. Try to solve all important family issues together, always listen to his opinion. Over time, you will learn to hear and feel each other better, and the tension in your couple will decrease. There is no serious threat of a breakup for your marriage, so by working on yourself and your relationship, you can solve all the problems.


I wish you happiness!